Couples just had a new child, love, indulge too much until they like it, or so-called abuse. It is often said [khmer phrase] “that you can love but don’t let them know your heart”, so the child is afraid not to ask for it or do what he wants. This problem may be important for parents who have young children who are good at shaking should find out to deal with their children.
The habit of creating the discipline to guide children is an awesome thing that every parent should have or create a style for themselves. Created and must be implemented, although sometimes they (children) are not happy, crying, should not break the rules. You may feel unhappy at first, but after a while, they may be afraid of us as parents and try to understand you. Reasons and promises with us. For example, if we want to give a child a cake, you should say, “Can you eat a cake? In addition, we have already promised each other. ” Or if your child calls the phone to watch videos, watch YouTube or play games, etc., we should confirm with them before giving the phone (or Tablet) such as Mom / Dad to me ( Children) Play or watch only one video or 3-5 minutes. So, when the time comes, remove the phone/tablet, even if they cry. All you have to do is stick to the rules. The character of the child becomes good or bad depending on our education or relaxation as parents.
children want things or want to do something very easily or quickly get bored no longer want to. So don’t give anything too easy. Try to encourage and explain to them why they (children) can play with it? Why can’t you eat that? When they begin to understand and demand what you want, you can ask or demand a reason, they may show the ability to explain From the heart.
It is not different from adults before deciding to do something is to find out, be reasonable and give priority to what should be done. First, good or necessary. Teach your child to finish work before visiting. Remember that you should be strict about this, but don’t be too much.
Normally, children can be upset a lot if they are not happy or we do not give them what they want. At this point, we as parents should use the theory of “you can love but don’t let them know your heart,” because no parent wants their child to be unhappy. It doesn’t take long for a child to get angry, so it may be a good idea to let someone down. Accompanied by the above three reasons, when observing the character of your child decreases a little and should take the time to comfort by explaining Reason for your child to understand why we don’t allow them to do so. In the future, they can take responsibility and solve problems on their own.
Habits for children to want to know for themselves
Create a habit of cultivating thinking, explanation by starting the question why? For example, ask them playfully, “What do you want to do when you grow up?