As everyone already knows that every people will never want to be alone even though they’re known as an introvert. Being alone sometimes is good because we can’t use this time to make our feeling patient and relax as well. And if you’re being alone for a long time, you will feel that being alone is simple and you’ll find it’s better to go alone like a quote said: “If you want to go fast go alone and if you want to go far go together. ”.
Try to interact with yourself
Remember that it is the best time for you to interact with yourself even though you think it sounds weird but it’s not. You know it gives you a chance to know yourself especially you can find out what makes you happy and what makes you upset. Have you ever try to interact with other people who are not want to be with you? So there is no reason for you to try to be with them anymore. Besides that, you just talk to yourself, tell yourself that some time alone is enough for you and ask yourself what exactly you want then you give yourself those things, inspire yourself to go on.
Leave your comfort zone and be confident in yourself
Leave comfort zone? Be confident? Sure it is not that easy to do those things that I have mentioned. But you know if you can do those two things, I’m sure that you will find a new world that you’d never expected to see. A person needs to leave their comfort zone with confidence. The more you stay in your comfort zone the more you find yourself lonely. When you go out and find something new to do you’ll meet a lot of people and you’ll learn more about how to be confident and making new friends which can let you out of a lonely world.
There are many volunteer works nowadays and don’t say that you feel nervous about doing it and is so please read the second point again. When you do volunteer work it does not only give you the working experience or money but it lets you meet new people to build your network which can leave you from loneliness. Moreover, doing volunteer work you will face many situations that you never expect and it gives you the brave to solve them very quickly.
Spend your time alone
It reminds me of one time that I decided to go alone on a walk because I feel lonely in the dorm. It was a very good experience for me. At first, I did feel strong enough to go alone because I used to go with a friend which make me feel better but this time I want to deal with myself and want to know the feeling of walking alone. It’s like magic it gives me the feeling that I never know before. It’s not lonely at all and I can feel the strength of me.